“For guys who are first-timers looking to explore anal play, I would generally recommend a traditional prostate stimulator such the Aneros,” Garrison says. “It’s compact and easily inserted for newbies, and also includes touch points for perineum stimulation.” Yep, those little balls on either end of the base actually have a practical purpose: They press into your taint while the plug’s inside you, so your prostate gets massaged from the inside and the outside at once. As with many other Aneros toys, this one doesn’t vibrate or anything, but is instead made to rub against the prostate whenever you squeeze your sphincter muscles. Many users report reaching explosive hands-free climaxes this way.
The Best Self-Thrusting Anal Toy: CalExotics Eclipse
Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 30-60 minutes
How to Use: Press and hold the toy’s button to turn it on or off. Short-press that same button to cycle through the toy’s 12 settings
“For guys who are first-timers looking to explore anal play, I would generally recommend a traditional prostate stimulator such the Aneros,” Garrison says. “It’s compact and easily inserted for newbies, and also includes touch points for perineum stimulation.” Yep, those little balls on either end of the base actually have a practical purpose: They press into your perineum while the plug’s inside you, so (if you have one) your prostate gets massaged from the inside and the outside at once. As with many other Aneros toys, this one doesn’t vibrate or anything, but is instead made to rub against the prostate whenever you squeeze your sphincter muscles. Many users report reaching explosive hands-free climaxes this way.
The Best Dildo for Prostate Play: Njoy Pure Wand
Materials: Stainless steel
How to Use: Apply lube as needed and insert vaginally or anally. Thrust or rock it in and out however feels best.
This elegant metal toy has a lot to offer for both cis and trans guys, says Richards. “For myself and my other vulva-having partners, curved metal wand toys are almost universally a guaranteed orgasm,” he says. “The curved shape stimulates the G-spot and often leads to squirting, while the slick heaviness of the metal itself provides a full feeling of satisfaction.” For men with prostates, this toy can target that zone instead, its curve and firmness allowing it to apply direct, unrelenting pressure. Richards likes that there’s a small end and a larger end, so you can experiment with different sensations.
The Best Vibrators
The Best Wand Vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable
Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery life: 3 hours
How to Use: Press the power button to turn the toy on or off. Use the patterns button to cycle through different vibration modes, and the middle button to ramp up the speed settings.
Richards recommends this classic toy, which he considers “the gold standard of vibrators,” for anyone who wants to introduce strong sensations into their sex life, regardless of their gender or anatomy. “If you find [it] a bit intense, using it over underwear is a way to enjoy the buzzing sensation on clits and cocks without excessive direct stimulation,” he suggests. There are various versions of the Magic Wand, including an old-school one that plugs into the wall, but this rechargeable version is more convenient and has more settings than the electric model.
The Best Wand Vibrator Attachment for Penises: Hummingbird Masturbator Attachment
Materials: Thermoplastic rubber
Battery Life: N/A
How to Use: Slip the attachment over the head of your wand vibrator (some water-based lube can help if it’s a tight fit). Lube up the inside of the stroker with water-based lube, slide it onto your penis, and power the vibrator on. You can stroke it up and down or just leave it still.
