Pros: Attached cock ring improves erection strength; four vibration speeds and six patterns; waterproof; textured silicone for more stimulation; remote-control functionality
Cons: Short battery life; not as versatile as a standalone prostate massager; texture may be too intense for some users; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; remote uses disposable batteries
The Best XL Prostate Massager: Tantus P-Spot
How to Use: Apply water-based lube liberally before inserting. Control the toy’s vibrations with the one button on its base.
If you’re up for a challenge, a big, thick toy like this can be wildly stimulating. There’s a bullet vibrator in the base, but you can also use it sans vibrations—its curve is so deep that it’ll leave you breathless regardless. As always, go slow and use a lot of lube!
Pros: Great curve for prostate stimulation; satisfyingly girthy shaft; harness-compatible for strap-on sex; bullet vibrator is removable; waterproof; three vibration speeds
Cons: Weak vibrations; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes; too large for some users; bullet vibrator uses disposable batteries
The Best Inflatable Prostate Massager: Dorcel Ultimate Expand
Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 1 hour
How to Use: Apply water-based lube before inserting. Hold down the toy’s one button to turn it on. Use that same button to cycle through different modes. Hold down the button again to deflate the toy and turn it off.
Inflatable toys are great for beginners, or for anyone who wants to push their butt’s boundaries. This one can expand from a manageable diameter of 1.4 inches to an impressive 2.2 inches, so you can find the exact right amount of fullness for the mood you’re in. It’s also got two vibration motors, one for the prostate and one for the perineum. Isn’t that just swell?
Pros: Inflatability makes girth variable depending on your mood; good curve for prostate stimulation; two motors to stimulate both prostate and perineum; remote-control functionality; textured silicone for extra stimulation; seven vibration and inflation modes
Cons: Remote uses a disposable battery; texture may be too intense for some users; not compatible with silicone-based lubes
The Most Overwhelming Prostate Massager: Fun Factory Miss Bi
Material: Silicone and ABS plastic
Battery Life: 30 to 60 minutes
How to Use: Apply water-based lube liberally before inserting the larger arm. Position the smaller, external arm on your perineum. Hold down the “Fun” button to turn the toy on or off; short-press that same button to change vibration settings. Use the other two buttons to adjust the vibration intensity.
Beginners may struggle with this toy’s chunky 1.7-inch diameter, but if you’re an anal connoisseur and want a lot of stimulation, you might just love this one. While technically designed as a rabbit vibrator for G-spot and clitoral stimulation, the Miss Bi works just as well when inserted anally, with the flexible “clitoral” arm resting on your perineum or balls. Each arm of the toy has its own rumbly motor, and there are six vibration speeds and six patterns to experiment with. The looped handle makes it easy to thrust this toy in and out, too.
Pros: Two motors target the prostate and perineum simultaneously; powerful rumbling vibration; good curve for hitting the prostate; ergonomic looped handle for easier insertion and thrusting; quiet; waterproof
Cons: Will be too large for some users; not compatible with silicone-based lubes; only three intensity levels; short stout shaft is not ideal for users who prefer deeper penetration; short battery life
The Best Glass Prostate Massager: Icicles No. 87
Material: Glass and silicone
How to Use: Apply lube before inserting.
Glass can feel wonderful on the prostate because it applies firm, unyielding pressure to the area. This toy has a gentle curve to hit your prostate, and comes with an optional silicone suction-cup base that you’ll enjoy if you want to be able to back up onto the toy or lower yourself down onto it—just press the base against a smooth, flat surface like a wall, tile floor, or mirror, and you’re good to go.
Pros: Good curve for prostate stimulation; beginner-friendly size; optional silicone suction-cup base; compatible with all kinds of lube; great for temperature play
Cons: May be slimmer and/or longer than some users prefer; not ideal for hands-free usage if not using the suction-cup base
The Best Rotating Anal Beads: Lovense Ridge
Battery Life: 2.5 hours
How to Use: Apply water-based lube before inserting. Turn the toy on by holding down its one button. Control its vibrations and rotation using the Lovense app.
The undulating texture of anal beads is uniquely pleasurable when sliding across the sensitive nerve endings of the anus, and this Lovense toy is a terrific example of that. Not only does it vibrate, but the tip also rotates a full 360 degrees, mimicking the feeling of a partner’s finger stroking the right spot. It’s a beginner-friendly toy that more experienced users can enjoy, too!